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forgiveness

Forgiveness  Forgiving someone for causing you hurt / damage / loss is often argued by different people. There are people around us who keep telling us to let go and forget what happened. But do we really forget ?  Nobody can feel the hurt / pain that someone caused you. Yes, they can be empathetic, they can be kind enough to listen to you and of course they can lend you a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen and absorb your grief. But feeling it exactly like you is impossible.  Forgiveness is very subjective. It depends on how important a person is / was, what kind of hurt they caused and what damage you incurred as a human being, emotionally, physically or both in some cases.  And here are some myths about forgiveness that often people tell us with the belief that forgiving someone always makes a person feel better. It does. It surely does, but in its own sweet time. Sometimes you forgive after you heal from a trauma and sometimes you can't even after getting fully healed from